Michelle (liedonlyonce) wrote in confess_to_us,
Michelle
liedonlyonce
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Inactive Members

The following members have had their member status removed due to being inactive. If you no longer are interested in being in this community, kindly take yourself out of the community completely. At this point you still have access to post and comment, but not to see "friends only" posts.

Inactive Members:
jacobs_mommy
jillianr
angelpants99
spidermanswife
melyrap

If you do not respond to this post within a few days, we will remove you completely from the community. We want all members to feel safe sharing here and it's hard to feel that way when there are people "lurking".


Thanks. Your mod, Michelle
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Sorry but I have been away for the last three weeks. Plus my husband is away in the military so don;t have much to add right now. Would still like to be a member but hey it's up to you guys
I guess what we're looking for from our members is participation. You can't get to know other members if you don't comment or talk to them. You don't have to be currently active in anyway (sexually, etc) to update. You can write about past experiences, ask questions, pose "what if" situations, tell us your fantasies, etc. It's about sharing, not about who had sex last night and for how long, ya know?
We would love to have you stay, but we need to know you really will participate. I hope that you do decide you want to be more active. We'd love for you to stay.

I would like to stay a member of this group I am sorry that I have not posted as I have been away for three weeks out of the last month. That is why I have not commented or anything like that. Also I am not on my computer all that much checkingmy journal all the time. I will make more of an effort to particapate in this group though.
Great, we'd love to keep you on. I'll add you back.

-Michelle
I can't speak for Laina, but I know she doesn't have the internet at her new apartment yet, only at her parents' house and she's about an hour away from their home via public transportation. That's why she's been inactive and hasn't updated her personal journal. I miss her though :( If I catch her online, I'll get her to post something asap, for you :)

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Xara
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Thanks, Xara. I know it's not always practical to give a short notice of just a few days but it's been a long time since a lot of these people have done anything in this community. We just want to keep those who do post feeling comfortable enough to share here.
hey Xara, I was wondering if you saw the ohter post I made the same day this one was made? If so, would you mind commenting there in response? Thanks.
Aren't all the posts "friends only"???
I'm not really sure what you are asking me. Of course all the posts are marked as friends only. The above members do not have access to see any posts marked friends only because they have not participated whatsoever in the community within the past month or more. Is there a reason you are asking?
NO I seen you wrote this, "At this point you still have access to post and comment, but not to see "friends only" posts." If all the posts are friends only then how would they beable to have access to comment to those posts?? That's why I was asking because I was confused even though it had nothing to do with me.
Ok this is the last time I am explaining this:

When you are a moderator, you have the ability to give members of your community different access rights. Usually if you have someone as a member they can read all posts, comment, and post entries themselves. You can also tweak it so that they can comment and they post, but they CANNOT READ friends only posts.

THIS IS WHAT I DID TO THE ABOVE MEMBERS UNTIL THEY LET US KNOW THEY WANT TO FULLY PARTICIPATE.

I did this because AS A MODERATOR I DO NOT FEEL IT IS RIGH TO BE ABLE TO READ ALL THE FRIENDS ONLY POSTS CONTAINING CONFIDENTIAL MATERIAL WHEN THERE IS NO FEEDBACK, POSTS, COMMENTS FROM "LURKING" MEMBERS.

Do you understand now!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!
Michelle,

Of course I still want to be a part of this community & I love it. And Im very sorry that I havent been active in here lately but like I said I love this community & I very much want to still be a part of it. I almost take offense to the fact that I am classified as a lurker as you ladies (ladies meaning one my friends list) all know that is not the the case.
I am sorry you took offense, we did not mean it like that at all. We, of course, would love to keep you in the community and will add you back right away now that you are able to get on the computer more regularly and update. Some new members did not even know who you were, and although Nikki and I do know who you are, some members felt uncomfortable knowing their were members who had not updated, commented, or participated in months. Welcome back, Laina!!
He hun im still aropund just got the net back if you would like me to leave its ok i understand its just im trying to slowly come back to lj it was so hard after i lost the baby... so i dont want to be a lurker sorrry... congrats on the new one Jill
we are very sorry for your loss. We wish you the best as you return to the world of journaling on LJ.